可爱老女人评价

Love is a limited substance. When you give love to someone new, you have to take it away from someone old. My father took every ounce of love he had and dumped it in Paris. People like us think we've been cursed by God, but, in fact, we've been cursed by our parents. You look in the mirror, and you see an adult. But you have to look more carefully. There's a big piece of you that never grew up. It may have grown tall, but not up. You spend your life waiting for your parents to come back and make it all right. But they don't come back. It's not all right. You have to somehow move past them. You have to somehow convince yourself that you don't nedd those people. Because you don't.

每个人都会自怜自哀，有时候会去责备自己的人生，甚至去怪罪命运不公，但是岁月已经蹉跎，伤痛已经被印刻，怎么办？
电影的开头是平淡的，一个失意绝望充满对父亲愤恨，一个经历坎坷颓废对爱失去希望的老男人Mathias就这么随着法国特有的乡村风情出现，导演慢慢的深入，将这个男人的故事展开……童年缺乏父母的爱，母亲有重度抑郁不断自杀不断抢救回来造成了青少年时期的忧郁，缺乏安全感，19岁亲眼看见母亲自杀而亡，一生伤痛，随后自杀未成，成年时3次婚姻的失败，酗酒，颓废，失去爱与被爱的权利，渴望温情但又把失败者的标签贴在自己的灵魂里，生活的起伏跌宕给了他良好的教养和狡黠的经验，看他迫不及待的想要卖房甚至去问Mathild夫人的私人医生Mathild夫人身体状况如何多么迫不及待的希望Mathild夫人早点归西，导演这里处理的很有意思，Mathias的演员也把老男人的滑头，敏感，刻画得栩栩如生……
当Mathias找到照片的一刻开始，电影慢慢将镜头的重心转到Mathild夫人身上，Mathias与Mathild夫人的几段对手戏都非常经典，没有歇斯底里的发泄，只有深切的悲伤

想想看，站在两个57岁儿女的角度，出轨的父亲和出轨的母亲，直到92岁都不觉得自己有错，直到了解到被伤害的那一方有人自杀，才好歹有了点悔意。
就这，还是自己最亲近的父亲母亲，你觉得你好好表现，就能赢得其他人的关注吗？错了，除非那些关注你的人是因为某些原因爱上你，把你当情人爱，把你当永远成不了的自己爱，把你当儿子爱，把你当女儿爱，把你当父亲爱，把你当母亲爱，反正就是不爱你原本的样子。主角玛蒂亚的父亲在和情人一起的时候表现近乎完美，柔情，慷慨，善良，认为自己爱儿子

一个居住在巴黎的92岁的法国女人，年轻时结了婚出轨了男主的父亲。
因为那时候的男主父亲还不够有钱（估计就是给不了她物质生活保障），所以法国女人依然选择了自己的婚姻。
即是男主的父亲结了婚，但是男主父亲和法国女人依然保持着婚外恋的关系。
法国女人在35岁时生下女儿，但估计那个丈夫也搞不清这个女儿到底是不是他的，所以也不是很爱这个孩子。
法国女人和男主父亲幽会时，还会带上女儿作为借口。
这个女儿在10岁的时候发现了她母亲的秘密。14岁时，她的父亲去世。
然后

说句实话，电影剧情不出彩，逻辑上也有很多漏洞，没有高潮，整个过程让人感觉到压抑沉闷。
但是我仍然推荐这部电影，为一群特殊的人：那些生活在因第三者而父母离异阴影下的孩子们。
电影引起我的共鸣，一方面是主演们精彩的表演（情感表现的太到位了），另一方面是影片的立意。

「I'm 90. Subtlety's not something that interests me.」
「If you do not love me, I shall not be loved.」
「Anytime anyone follows their heart, someone else gets their heart broken. There'e always detritus, always hurt, always pain. Love is a limited substance. When you give love to someone new, you have to take it away from someone old.
People like us think we've been cursed by God, but, in fact, we've been cursed by our parents. You look in the mirror, and you see an adult. But you have to look more carefully. There'e a big piece of you that never grew up. It may have grown tall, but not up. You spend your life waiting for your parents to come back and make it all right. But they don't come back. It's not all right. You have to somehow move past them. You have to somehow convince yourself that you don't need those people, because you don't.」

【可爱老女人】Love is a limited substance.
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